I am using the dynamic accordion menu and I am trying to figure out how to show an active state.
I have tried both examples below with no success.

li.ectmenu1 a:active{
background-color: #6A1A00;
color: #fff;

ul.ectmenu1 a:active{
background-color: #6A1A00;
color: #fff;

To what end? I visited your site and the link stays brown on hover and click. Are you looking for it to be a different color on click? It truly is not worth doing. Or, are you referring to when the menu is expanded and the link that is clicked on to expand the menu you want to change background color? I looked at your style sheet and you have this
So what you have in in your post is not going to change anything. But would be the correct approach.

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